While I don't do resolutions, I dedicate serious time to reflection and goal setting every year. Goal setting, when done well, sets you up for success. For the last 14 years I've set aside some time around New Year's Day to review the past year, reflect, and set goals for the coming year. Those reflections have literally changed my life and shaped who I am today. I'd like to share my current yearly review and goal setting process in case it might be useful to someone else.
A disclaimer before continuing: I'm sure that none of the ideas described below are original. However, I've been doing this process long enough that I no longer remember where the ideas originally came from. Maybe I'll follow up later and see if I can find and credit the original sources.
ReflectionAs suggested by the title, I do two things: I reflect and I plan. I start by setting aside a block of time (several hours) to review the past year and collect notes in a mindmap. I've attached the current template I use (mm, pdf). I like a mindmap for this process as it makes it effortless to first collect all the ideas in whatever form makes sense at the time, and then organize them into a form that makes sense once all the ideas are captured. I use freemind for my mindmaps, but there are several options for mind mapping tools. The main effort of reviewing is to remember what I did and capture the meaningful parts in the mindmap. I accumulate them in the categories on the right hand side of the mindmap (What did I do, What did I do well?, What problems did I face?...). I don't sweat getting things perfectly in the right category at this point, but having the categories already there does help focus what I'm looking for as I review.
|Yearly Reflection Template Mindmap|
I aggressively take notes in Evernote and regularly reflect and journal, so the challenge for me is processing a lot of information. At the end of every day throughout the year, I take time to review my day. I similarly do weekly, and monthly reviews at different levels of detail. I don’t do those reviews to facilitate the yearly review (they are useful in their own right), but they definitely help. This past year I reviewed all my daily reviews. This took longer than I would have liked, so a focus area for me next year is catching more of the important stuff in the weekly and monthly reviews so I can limit my yearly review to the weekly and monthly reflections and skip the daily ones.
As I'm reviewing my year a couple of things naturally occur to me. I naturally think of new goals I want to set and I notice nice things that people did for me. The new goals may be continuations from the previous year (e.g., I did well on X and I'd like to reinforce that and do it even better) or completely new goals. At this stage I just make sure to capture these goals on the mindmap, and then move on.
I also make sure to capture the nice things people did for me. I particularly try to make note of things that, in hindsight, had a big impact -- those aren't always obvious in the moment. At the end of this process I make sure to send thank you notes to the people who did those particularly impactful nice things. I only added writing thank you notes to the process last year, but it's quickly become a highlight for me. It does so many good things. First, it feels really good to genuinely thank people #gratitude. Second, people really appreciate it -- I've gotten a number of "you've made my day" responses. Third, it reinforces good behavior. A lot of things aren't obviously good at the time. A thank you note is an inexpensive but strong positive feedback to good people on their good deeds. If the thank you note is related (in anyway) to someone's job, I make sure to include their boss on the notes when appropriate.
After reviewing the previous year's goals, calendar, and notes, I have a giant mindmap of my year and a large pile of protean goals for the next year. This is a good time for a break, before I organize the whole thing. Then I try to make sense of all of it. I take advantage of the mind map and drag things around and put more value judgements on things. Things that were good go in the good pile. Problems in the problem pile. Duplicates get removed or combined. Similar things are grouped together. It's good a this point to take a step back and take it all in. How was the year? How did you do?
Nice Side EffectsThere are a few interesting side-effects of the review process. First, they let me see the big picture across timespan we don't normally have the time to think about. Big change takes time and we are often focused on very small time spans. The second side-effect is it let's me see my accomplishments more clearly. I had a very good 2019, accomplishing a lot of my goals and pushing many things forward. It's nice to pause to see the forest for the trees periodically. It also makes it easier to keep pressing forward on the hard things when I can see that I've made progress on them or similar hard things in the past.
Goal SettingThe next step is the goal setting for the year. Goal setting is remarkably easy at this point. I copy that long list of proposed goals over into a new mindmap, for which I have a template (mm, pdf). I also make another pass through last year's goals to see what else I should pull over or extend. Note that while this is “yearly” goal setting, I make no attempt to make sure I can achieve my goals in one year (more later). The main work is organizing the goals into a useful structure. This year I have 4 top level categories of goals: personal, professional, family, and trips. Trips is a new category for me this year, but it made sense and didn't fit properly elsewhere. The other three have been part of my goals for many years.
|Goal Setting Template Mindmap|
At this point I have a huge pile of aspirations that I want to work on right now, which obviously doesn't work. I can't execute on all those goals at the same time -- it just isn't feasible. Additionally, many of the goals need or benefit from buy-in from others. So there are two next steps: buyin with iteration, and breaking goals down into manageable pieces.
For buyin I try to talk to key people related to my goals. These almost always include my wife and my boss, but may include others as well. If a key person does not buy into my goals, the goals may not be reasonable. By talking, I make sure that my goals are possible, gain support on working on those goals, and often am able to refine my goals to something better. Usually all three happen. For instance a good manager can do great things in giving you support on given goals. At the same time, these goals are my goals -- they aren't business commitments for others to measure me by and no one gets to set these goals for me or veto any of my goals. Ultimately I get to decide what the goals are.
The other step is breaking the goals down into manageable pieces. There are two parts to this. Any goal with a date on it needs to have its dependencies laid out so there's a chance to achieve it (standard project management). The second part is deciding what to focus on first/next. I review all my year goals and set Monthly goals. These may be straight from the yearly goals, or something that starts me towards a yearly goal. At the end of the month I review my progress on the monthly goals and yearly goals, and then pick the next month goals. And so on. For the most part I do not try to plan out how and when I’m achieving all the goals, but rather focus on what’s most important now and what am I doing next. I’ve found the year is just to unpredictable to try to schedule everything out at the same time.
At the end of the year I almost always have goals that aren't done. This is expected and just fine. I do not grade myself on the fraction of goals completed, but rather on the holistic progress I've made. Have I worked on the most important things? Have I made progress? Why or why not? Sometimes I've made good progress on a goal and want to continue it. Sometimes a goal is achieved and done. Sometimes I just don't succeed on a goal. I may continue on it or move on. And sometimes I don't achieve a goal because priorities changed. All of these are reasonable outcomes. The point of all the grading is to learn and get better at what matters to you.